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A psychologist walked around a room
while teaching stress management to an audience.
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As she raised a glass of water,
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everyone expected they'd be asked the
"half empty or half full" question.
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Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired:
"How heavy is this glass of water?"
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Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.
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She replied,
"The absolute weight doesn't matter.
It depends on how long I hold it.
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If I hold it for a minute, it's not a problem.
If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my arm.
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If I hold it for a day,
my arm will feel numb and paralyzed.
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In each case,
the weight of the glass doesn't change,
but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes."
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She continued,
"The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water.
Think about them for a while and nothing happens.
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Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt.
And if you think about them all day long,
you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything."
It¡¯s important to remember to let go of your stresses.
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Àáµé³¢±îÁö ÁüÀ» °¡Á®°¡Áö ¸¶¼¼¿ä.
As early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down.
Don't carry them through the evening and into the night.
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Remember to put the glass down!
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